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39 | Denver, Colorado

"What matters most is how well you walk through the fire..."

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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in his own words...

It's a winding road to where I now stand... 2011 turned out to be a banner year for me and my personal growth (I shot up two inches!). I'm in a much better place than I started the year, so I'm gonna call this one a win. I'm a grown-up punk rocker who wears his scars like victory marks. I've been through a great deal and don't regret a single minute. I could have played things differently and certainly made better decisions, but I'm a better person for my failings. Lord knows, if nothing else I am an endless source of amusement. I'm part clown, part curmudgeon. I've got it where it counts: in my heart. I don't want to prattle on aimlessly, but I do feel the most common mistake we make is to disclose the details of who we THINK we are to someone trying to get to know us. This is a mistake because by doing so, one has created a self-fulfilling prophecy of sorts. By telling someone: "I can be a real miserable bastard", not only do they expect one to act accordingly, one will likely rise (or sink) to the expectation laid out. The more natural approach to getting to know someone, is to spend time with them. Who we are to the world outside our skin is dictated by our actions. Unfortunately, it takes a great deal of time to really get to know someone... Time most of us don't have OR (more accurately) we don't have the patience. That said (or typed, as it was), I can be a miserable bastard and quite inpatient. Just kidding... I'm a father first and foremost and becoming so is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I treasure my time with my son now more than ever. In my free time without my kiddo, I like taking advantage of where I live. Denver has a great deal to offer and I've got my share of favorite locales I frequent. I haven't been snowboarding in a couple of years, but I will be hitting the slopes at least twice this season (including getting my son his first ski lesson: exciting). I love a good adventure and often head out on one spur of the mo

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any