PRIMARY

BUILDER

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

(he also shows elements of this type)

Alan

54 | Denver, Colorado

Compassionate and passionate man looking for a mate

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I think consistent routines keep life orderly and relaxing
  • I have a vivid imagination

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His 16 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Fishing/Hunting

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

in his own words...

Passion. Integrity. Loyalty. That's what has made me who I am, and what I am. Intolerance of the absence of the same is what brings me to this site. Now a single father, raising my son and enjoying it! I love my son, who have handled some pretty large life changing events wonderfully. I'm comfortable with myself, which translates into being comfortable in any environment. I'm not overly talkative, although I know how to hold a conversation, and one of the few people I've ever known comfortable with silence. I am, and have always been, a confidant--I have been told so many things, by so many people, often when our relationship didn't warrant the trust they gave me. I think of myself as someone who enjoys life--a renaissance man, if you will, with a wealth of current and forgotten interests (which need to be resurrected). I am a true art lover, and can find the beauty in almost everything. I have my own opinions, but can appreciate another perspective, and truly enjoy the differences. I learn predominantly by doing, but am intelligent enough to learn from others experiences as well. You'll usually find me with a smile; it's probably my best feature, and it is certainly my best weapon and/or defense mechanism. I love to laugh, and make others laugh, but don't need to be the life of the party. If any of this sounds interesting/appealing to you, please, let me know. I could use some good adult conversation.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral