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JT

53 | Denver, Colorado

If your running shoes are right next to your high heels, and you love skiing....and you believe it takes two to make it last...

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I get restless if I have to stay home for any length of time
  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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His 17 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing Sports

Politics

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Fitness

in his own words...

Looking for a partner for fun and maybe more. I’m idealistic yet pragmatic, thoughtful yet feel deeply, calm and methodical but when I trust you will be very affectionate, spontaneous, and funny. Most people guess my age as 5 -10 years less. I’m honest, loyal, and care about relationship, friends and family, the earth and social realities. Fitness and health, sensuality and spirituality are important to me. Style: Metallica to Mozart, comfort food and fancy, dress up well AND love 501s or REI style, John Stewart and Stephen Colbert, love mountains and the beach, enjoy ESPN but don’t need it (Chicago and Denver fan), not usually a night owl but can be for the right occasion, eat well but love desserts, like going out and staying in, love skiing in winter and hiking or mtn biking the rest of the year. Yoga is keeping me sane, strong, and flexible. Do it daily is my philosophy! Perfect day: ski with my partner, then hot tub with a beer, cook and enjoy a great dinner, finish with dessert in bed. YOU: have running shoes (or ski boots) next to your high heels, you do a baseball cap and jeans as well as the LBD and lipstick, enjoy the Avalanche and the art gallery, like the hole in the wall grill and the place where you need a reservation. You know what it is to be heartbroken and to get back up, to be vulnerable and strong, to fight fair and to love the making up, to hold your own in intelligent conversation and appreciate what others say. You know money is useful, but won’t buy happiness . You love yourself and like your body, can speak your truth yet hear mine, without distancing or attacking. YOU MUST: love skiing and the outdoors, voted for Obama (twice) and desire to make the world better, spiritually interested and trying to be self-aware, value fitness/health, see relationship as a ‘takes two’ reality, love kissing and touch of all kinds. Bonus points: do yoga, love baseball, know the Enneagram

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 48
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral