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43 | Denver, Colorado

I think it goes something like "It's not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages". Nietzsche

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • I am always looking for new experiences

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in his own words...

So in the blink of an eye I am now 39, divorced and have two kids. On one hand I'm the same person I've always been. On the other I have now experienced the ups and downs of life, and I am not the same man I was before. Putting the two together has made me a better person. I am confident and secure in who I am, but not arrogant. I choose to let people make their own opinions about my character, so I dont feel the need to tell you how nice, etc. I am. If you take the time to get to know me you will find out that I am very open and will tell you everything you will want to know. On to what I am looking for. I am looking for a friend first. That being said, I realize that all friends do not make great loves, but my love has to be a great friend. Beyond that I know what I want in my life, and when someone fits that criteria then we can decide what path our lives are going to take together. So in a nutshell I just want someone that can be themself from our first meeting and forever... If things are right we will figure it out. So anyway I look forward to meeting those that take the chance for a new friendship. We will never know what might happen if we don't take the risk.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 24 - 105
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any