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55 | Denver, Colorado

Dance like EVERYONE is watching!

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I do things on the spur of the moment
  • When I wake up from a vivid dream, it takes me a few seconds to return to reality
  • I am tough-minded

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in his own words...

I like the intellectual mystery and emotional danger of a deep, sometimes dark, but often ecstatic love affair. I also like the easy, communicative, fun, safe comradery of a best friend who is my lover and favorite playmate. Either one (or both) will keep me energized and invested as long as there is mutual respect, sexual exclusivity, open/honest/authentic conversation, outdoor adventures, dogs, horses, good books/movies, big world views, a minimum of TV, no drugs, and a high level of intellectual/physical fitness. I live pretty much the life I want although I miss the old days when many of us were working less and making MORE. I’m not money motivated, but am EXCELLENCE motivated. I work in order to provide a credible, necessary, difference-making service to the community with which to buy the time I need to do things I want, including: snowboarding on powder days, horseback trips to remote mountain valleys, reading/studying/writing, playing in a few tennis tournaments/leagues each summer, trips to Wyoming to visit my mom/brother, views of sunrises and sunsets anywhere, views of the Milky Way from a mountaintop, surfing 4-footers and dreaming of shooting a tube sometime before I die. (hopefully not AS I die!) If your physical beauty, inner character, educated opinions, honest questions and vulnerable secrets add to the experience, I would love to take a walk together on roads less travelled hand in hand, or separately, deep in conversation, or silence. I know myself well and enjoy my own company very much, but am mostly motivated by 1) intimacy, the deeper and more complex the better, and 2) nature, the more untouched and wild, the more invigorating. I have a dream to make love on the dance floor (fully clothed) with a beautiful, sexy, smart woman whose body and soul responds to my respectful, musical lead.I'd love to find someone to take swing, tango & salsa lessons with, and maybe fall in love as we learn together.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Bald
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral