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29 | Denver, Colorado

Checking out this site as I would like to see what it has to offer .... GAY MALE SEEKS GAY MALE....

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I think consistent routines keep life orderly and relaxing
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions

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in his own words...

I am a sane, level headed GAY MALE, no games or b.s., I am fully out to my family, community yet don't wear my sexuality on my shirt sleeve, I am solid in who I am and where I fit into society, I am looking for a like minded MAN who would be interested in similar things as me yet, his own man and bring something to the table. I have a high sex drive and enjoy a lot of things life has to offer. I am highly attracted to men of color but realize that maybe they are not attracted to me. So all are welcome to engage me. LOL I am a self made individual who enjoys life to its fullest, love people, love different cultures, love to travel and experience new things. Try me or suggest something and hold on! Have a desire to settle down and enjoy things in life together but still give back to humanity along the way. I am trying to simplify and downsize my life. Material things have gotten the best of me in the past. Money and power no longer work for me. Friends and family see me as a great catch and I have been "caught" before. :) Both female and male. Those relationships didn't last due to personality differences but I still remain friends with both parties to this day. I have three great kids from my former wife and they are a large part of my life. I get them every other weekend. They come first but they know that I am gay and am searching for my life partner. Life is short so I try to live each day as it might be my last, its a blessing and see myself as one who will make my partner "as whole as possible" and hope that he also brings me to the same "conclusion" We can have different interests and have our own space. Compromise is important in all and understanding along the way. A start to everything is a solid foundation with honesty and friendship. This will leads us to hopefully a commitment to great things. Timing and where it leads us both is anyones guess. Thanks for reading.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 39 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral