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Mary

36 | Denver, Colorado

Looking for a guy who is a mix of Stephen Colbert, Gandhi, Sufjan Stevens, and the guy in the Patagonia magazine. =)

She is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, she can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

She is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in her relationships.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Performing arts

Playing cards

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Fitness

in her own words...

So, why do I admire the qualities in these guys? Stephen Colbert is not only hilarious, but he uses his humor to challenge our society's normative thinking. Gandhi promoted change through nonviolence and dedicated his life to serving the most vulnerable. Sufjan Stevens is creative and deep and plays the type of music that I love! And, the guy in the Patagonia magazine (I don't know which one!) is the rugged, outdoorsy type who respects and preserves nature. There you go…that's all you need to know! Well, maybe I'll tell you a little about myself, too. =) I like to enjoy life and find meaning and beauty out of the simple things. I am a deep-thinker who loves to have challenging conversations. I like to live with purpose and passion, which includes working to fight injustice and poverty in the world. I am passionate about children and am currently working towards becoming a licensed clinical social worker to provide therapy to children who have been through trauma. I have a laid-back, calm personality. I enjoy taking time for myself and just having fun. I love to laugh! I also love music and always have something playing in the background. I am also a bit of a hippie in that I love the outdoors, try to eat mostly organic, believe that homeopathic medicine works, and regularly hug trees (not really!). I am looking for someone who is compassionate, cares about social justice, and longs to see the world changed for the better. He needs to be willing to go against the norms in society. He should also be able to laugh and not take himself or others too seriously. I also want to find someone who values spirituality and finds purpose in life through loving and serving God and others. He needs to be a deep-thinker who knows himself well and is willing to be open about his feelings and thoughts. On a lighter side, it would be a plus if he loves dogs, funny movies, cooking, Indie bands such as The National or Bon Iver, and being outside in the rain or snow!

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Less than $25,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 26 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral