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35 | Denver, Colorado

A renaissance man who loves to laugh.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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in his own words...

I am definitely not an expert online-dater, so I am not really sure what to write to pique your interest. I am, however, an expert Coloradan (third generation!) and I love living here. Most of my family lives here, which is great because they are such a big part of my life. I am currently going to school at UCD to get a double masters degree, one in Architecture and one in Business. With any luck, I will soon be a licensed architect. Architecture is an awesome and progressive profession with so many opportunities to learn about new technologies and cultures as well as plenty of chances to exert my creative energies into designing buildings, furniture, and even clothing! I thoroughly enjoy dining out and trying new restaurants and cuisines. Along with that, I love to travel and learn about new cultures while practicing my French (fluent) and my Italian (rusty). I've traveled quite a bit, but the world is big and there is still a lot of ground to cover. I have a funky sense of humor and I love to laugh. Seriously, I laugh most of the time (at appropriate times, usually). As a native Coloradan, I am rather outdoorsy. During warm months you might find me camping, backpacking, rock climbing, motorcycling, etc. During the winter I love to snowboard, but I don't hate on skiers. I am looking for someone with whom I can laugh and share life experiences. Someone who is open-minded and is not afraid to share their opinions. Someone who enjoys life. This is how my friends describe me: "Bennie is a true friend, honest, rational, nurturing and totally lovable. He's humble, sometimes shy, and probably a little nervous about online dating." "Bennie, what a guy. Close with his family, great for hugs, a real keeper!" "I'd describe Bennie as one of the sexiest men alive with a killer smile and warm brown eyes." Alright, I didn't really ask my friends, but I’m sure that is what they would say if I did. Look forward to hearing from you!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 22 - 34
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral