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Joel

58 | Denver, Colorado

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He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I do things on the spur of the moment
  • I vividly imagine both wonderful and horrible things happening to me
  • I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things

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Wine tasting

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in his own words...

I really enjoy watching a film together with someone, and dissecting it afterwards. If we both like or hate a film together, that’s great. If we disagree, that’s fine too. I’m a real foodie. Some of my fondest memories are from a stay in Paris, where shopping, preparing and eating dinner was a central part of the social life. I enjoy going to museums and galleries. Even it’s all crap, it still makes you think. I especially enjoy art that pokes fun at things. Art and humor should not be exclusive of each other. I love the country, and lying on a beach is great too. But deep down I’m a city boy. I like nothing more than to walk miles around a city, taking in as much as I can. I discovered running many, many moons ago, and I’ve never stopped. Over the years, it has been a way for me to meditate, to focus, to relax, and it is one of my best means of maintaining my life’s balance. It’s a great source of personal satisfaction, and it keeps me honest. I take my work seriously. But I don’t take myself seriously. At heart, I’m a New York liberal. I love it here in Denver, and I don’t think I’ll ever move back, but the East coast has never lost its attraction. I don’t care if you aren’t a great cook. In fact, I don’t care much if you aren’t great at anything at all. But I do, passionately, care that you enjoy a good challenge. And be able to have a good laugh when it all goes awry. I will try my best to accept you for what you are, not what I expect you to be. All I ask is that you make the same effort.Communication is a most important thing. Ultimately, I expect honesty, but tempered by a bit of mystery and a sense of timing. I think of it as being able to tell a good story.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 56
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any