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Erika

43 | Denver, Colorado

Keeping life fresh

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Performing arts

Spirituality

Travel

Volunteering

in her own words...

About me... I like stories so I'll start with one, my snake safari. When Jessie my eleven-year-old cousin persisted for weeks in inviting me to join him for a snake catch–and-release expedition, I knew my answer had to be yes. Snake #1 – I scream, though brief, it’s high-pitched and girly. Snake #2 – “Jessie, I want to touch this one,” I say, with faith not-yet-in-place. Yet when I stroke the top of the snake’s head, it’s surprisingly soft. Snake #3 – It’s time to try and pick one up. After Jessie shows me how to gingerly loop my fingers around the snake “to keep from breaking his back” and then how to hold my fingers so it can slink through them and “feel safe”, I make my first lunge. Half way up instinct kicks in, and I send the snake flying through the air. Snake #4 - Jessie parades his prize. “He’s pretty cute. Look at him.” Jessie cradles him, and in his still boyish hands, I see the cuteness. Snake #5 – Click. Jessie smiles as he snaps a shot of me with a six inch baby grass snake coiled in my palm with its head poking through my index and third fingers as if posing for the shot. I am smiling, too; beaming would be more accurate. So that’s the sneak preview about me. I don’t like snakes, but can find them cute with a bit of inspiration. I think it’s why green is my favorite color; it’s about growth and keeping life fresh. I always want to be learning, opening up to be present in the moment, letting go of what stands in the way of connecting to God and people. Two of my favorite compliments have been “You’ll still be beautiful when you’re eighty”, and “I bet you throw a great party”. I hope that means that the interior life shines through, and that I’m at my best when I’m caring for others. And now about you… You can rival me at Boggle. You’re handy, and are happy to teach me the tricks. Kindness is your trademark. You welcome a challenge, and are strong at the finish line. You might prefer brats and a beer, but you’d venture to tast

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Protestant
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 36 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral