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Paula

56 | Denver, Colorado

Sandwich walks into a bar...

She is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, she can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

She is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in her relationships.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct

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Books/reading

Cooking

Dining out

Movies/Videos

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Travel

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in her own words...

I’m a slender, fit redhead with a plus-size personality and a big heart. Although my childhood included a good dose of tomboy, I am feminine to the core, with a dancer’s elegance. Open and welcoming. Feisty and opinionated, but not judgmental. Wit is an aphrodisiac to me, and I can banter with the best of ‘em. At the same time, I know how to create a safe space for expressing more serious thoughts and feelings. I’ve been on stage from NYC to Zurich: as a hatmaker in Hello Dolly to the lead hippie in Hair. Although I still perform, in my work I now use my insights to guide others--inspiring them through corporate trainings and life coaching. It’s such rewarding work, I find myself doing the Snoopy dance on a regular basis. It’s all about authenticity, and so am I. My only vices are clothes shoes (years of shoe modeling spoiled me) but I’m also a sucker for travel. Trips abroad to the urban treasures of Paris. Snowy vistas in the Austrian Alps. I love an atmosphere for that special evening: food wine, cozy fire, and the right music. I’ll surprise you too, with that rare CD you’ve been looking for, or your favorite home cooked meal. Listening deeply is in my bones, and I enjoy hearing about your deep passions as well as how stupid the drivers were on that particular day. You are good at surprises. You know that a great sense of humor can make an average-looking guy extremely attractive. Comfortable in your masculinity, you have no problem leading. You respect my competence, but have fun keeping me off balance by taking charge. Holding your own pushing back, understanding that the dance of gender keeps me soft and feminine. You play to the kid in me by organizing a treasure hunt for my present, or by inviting me to a play date with your equally endearing kid. You could have formal education, or be self-taught, but you’re very intelligent and always learning. You have a world of knowledge, and knowledge of the world. You focus on what’s real. Have opinions -- you’r

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Auburn / Red
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 48 - 58
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral