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45 | Denver, Colorado

"The worthwhile problems are the ones you can really solve or help solve, the ones you can really contribute something to." - RF

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I am more analytical and logical than most people

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Dining out




Performing arts


Wine tasting

in his own words...

Imagine driving around town with someone who is on speaking terms with the local ghosts, sees buildings and ice rinks and arches that aren't there anymore, and knows many of the people whose names grace the street signs. I live with my head in the clouds sometimes, but the view up here is beautiful and I'd love to share it over coffee, or fish and chips with malt vinegar. I'm looking for someone to explore the universe with while living life day by day and taking joy in its little wonders. While watching a movie, we share popcorn with sprinkled Tabasco sauce. Afterward, we consider if Sidonie Gabrielle Colette ever met Oscar Wilde, and if they would have hit it off if they did. Over coffee, we might consider where chocolate and chilies and coffee came from, or the virtues of the job title, "barista," or the beauty of the foam art, or my struggle to decide if you eyes or your outfit are more outstanding. Another night, we might see a college production of some obscure Greek tragedy, followed by takeout. I lived with a flower shop owner in New Zealand for a while growing up, and even since then I've love flowers, a pure indiscriminate love uninformed by any real ability to identify them or make them grow. Sometimes I like to drive through random Denver neighborhoods in late spring and early summer to see the flowers, admire their gargoyles and consider their tragically bad xeriscaping aesthetics. I'm a package deal. I have two brilliant, popular middle schoolers. Teens and tweens can be sulky, but allowances must be made for them. Dads are allowed to embarrass them. Dad's girlfriends are not. And, I take their opinions seriously just as I would take yours. I prefer tweed brown jackets and salmon shirts to pinstripes and rep ties, given the choice, but sometimes circumstances demand something outside your comfort zone. I'm considering growing a beard again, but would ask for you opinion first. I value your kindness, willingness to explo

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any