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41 | Denver, Colorado

Worst user name EVER?!?!

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating
  • I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends

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in his own words...

When I created my user name I was making an esoteric movie soon as I hit the submit button I caught the double entendre. Crap!!! Most people describe me as being a bit too serious and direct. I’ll fess up; I don’t play games (it bores me). At various times I suffer from all character flaws of men: i.e. afraid of commitment, trust issues, inability to communicate, uncertainty of what I want, overconfidence…blah blah blah. So you have been warned. Also, my first marriage disintegrated because of my stupidity. No, I didn't cheat... just too much, and too young to be able to handle certain things like an adult. That was many years ago, and I have learned my lessons. I don't take myself too seriously, despite my serious nature (not sure how that makes sense). Despite the obvious red flags of the first paragraph, I do have some redeeming qualities: • I bathe regularly, because I stink. • I brush my tooth at least twice a day and floss after every meal, yes…just one tooth. • My dog doesn’t mind hanging with me, when I have doggie treats. • I have a job, car, and place of my own (minimum requirements, right?). • I am not a drunk or druggie (yup, MJ is a drug). • I can lift heavy objects and kill spiders (this last one might be a bit of a stretch). I do not have a specific type of woman I am interested in. I have connected across the spectrum - from completely wild to completely boring, and everything in between. I want someone who knows what they want. I am tired of sitting around in uncertainty while the other person is still trying to figure things out, or is in the midst of getting their shit together. I want someone I can rely on. Of course, trust plays a tremendous part in this. You will know where you stand with me - I expect the same in return. I have been at a point in my life where I am ready to put the work into something much greater than myself. That is, an enduring relationship.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 28 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral