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J. Wesley

51 | San Francisco, California

Life is short, the time to act is now.

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in his own words...

I'm a passionate down-to-earth man looking to meet nice guys to hang out, for conversation, and hopefully more. Coffee, a beer, lunch, walk in the neighborhood, all good. Interested in communicative guys who can converse on a wide range of subjects. I'm an attentive listener with a sharp wit and a broad and liberal world view; I enjoy getting to know new people. Less of a go out guy these days than in the past. LTR-oriented. I grew up in one of the "I" states (Iowa, Illinois, Ibraska) however have been in SF for a long time. Occasionally threaten about February each year to relocate to Tucson (where I've never been) for warmer weather, but the Bay Area is home. I'm very interested in the wider world, introspective but also like to have fun. 5'8", 150 lbs., fit, negative, top. Scanning the horizon for that hot right guy with whom to develop a powerful and lasting mental, intellectual and physical connection. Until then, enjoying life in all its beauty, complexity, and irony.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Not Answered
  • Religious affiliation:
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  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Not Answered
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 38 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any