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Jeff

57 | San Francisco, California

Life is precious, life is fun. I'm looking for someone I can share and celebrate life with and who is committed to integrity and growth.

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Cooking

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Movies/Videos

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Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Politics

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

in his own words...

Are you looking for a husband? Me too. It seems that some people know exactly what they want in a partner. I don’t know how tall you are, how old you are, or what color your eyes are. But I do know some of the elements I want present in a relationship. Integrity. Play. Invention and exploration. Spirituality. Hilarity. Transformation. Fun. Romance. Deep love. A commitment to something bigger than ourselves, but which includes us. Topped off with a healthy dose of animal attraction and hot sex. I’m a 51 year old GWM (most think I am younger). I have a great job, a great home, and great friends. I workout 6 days a week for reasons of health and vanity (listed in reverse order of importance). I’m in great shape and considered attractive by most but not all. I grew up in the Bay Area, live in the Castro, and consider this my home. My friends say I’m reliable, adventurous and fun. I’m mostly an urban person—love to eat out, go to movies, hang out in cafes. But I also enjoy forays off the island—day trips to Bolinas, hikes, a weekend in the country. I am open to returning to some of the hobbies of my youth—bike rides, kayaking, river rafting. But balanced with horizontal non-movement exercise (chaise lounge, cocktail cardio). A social life with friends that is fun and rooted in deep relationship with those we cherish. Travel and time off that is about discovery and renewal, with some room for left for the occasional out of control party. And of course, plenty of nesting, movie nights and just hanging out. As for our lives together, I envision a future of growth and development for the two of us, for our friends, for our world. I want a partner committed to being great and having a great life. One who is responsible for their own experience of life and not afraid of straight talk and facing challenges directly—keeping the space between us clean and clear, free of victimhood, because life is urgent and life is precious. Included is intellectual engagement—reading, le

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Not Answered
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Not Answered
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college