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54 | San Francisco, California

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in his own words...

I like to have long, and occasionally rambling conversations, that touch on everything from the evolution of consciousness from the singularity of the Big Bang, to how difficult it is to hit Tim Lincecum's change-up. My friends are very important to me, though many are far away, and some have been lost. My children are even more important. I love really good food and have swooned in restaurants after taking a first bite. Music and great writing transport me, and make me realize that we are not alone. I drove to Nevada and knocked on strangers' doors for Obama. It was the first time I became politically active (although I've loved to talk politics since I was 10). I wrestle with moral questions. I don't always win. But I think I win more often than not, and know that I'll come back to fight another day when I lose. I used to travel around the world, and preferred places that felt like they hadn't changed for thousands of years: the Khyber Pass, the Silk Road, Abu Simbel. My adventure trips have been on sabbatical for several years, as I have not had the long blocks of time that such trips require (in my opinion). But I'd like to start planning a way to bend time and place so that, maybe, I can get to Mali or Burkina Faso, or perhaps just my favorite parts of Paris soon. I like people who make me laugh and who I can make laugh (very important). I like words, but there also has to be the right kind of glances. Earnestness is good, but only to a point. Same with sarcasm, and that should never be mean. I like to challenge ideas and ways of seeing, but some people may think that I am just challenging them. Those relationships usually won't go deep with me. Looks matter to me, and I think I have always gone out with women who were/are better looking than me (although my former loves have insisted that was not true). But then, I have never understood what women see in most men (as far as physical beauty) except for the few like Paul Newman or Jude Law.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Not Answered
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • Not Answered
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral