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57 | San Francisco, California

Sensitive Hairy Bear with a big sex drive and a big heart and hiv poz. Nice guy with a lot of love to give to the right man.

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct

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in his own words...

I am a nice guy, sensitive (sometimes to sensitive) with a good sense of humor. I consider myself sane and I do have a little baggage, but not a lot. Show me a gay man with no baggage and I will show you a straight man. I have a big sex drive and a big heart. Little things mean a lot to me like greeting cards. I am hiv poz and have some other health issue but love my Doctor and we are working together to help my health get better. I don't party. I am a cigarette smoker and consider it my last bad habit so I'm not ready to quit. I would love to find a nice man that wants to share his life with me and share my life. I have not been in a relationship for 7 years and I am ready to meet the right guy now. I like guys that can talk about problems and not scream about them. Nothing gets worked out screaming. I would love to share my bad days and good days with a special guy and I want to be there for him.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Every day
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any