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61 | San Francisco, California

Responsible, kind and fun!

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • After watching an emotional film, I often still feel moved by it several hours later
  • I have a vivid imagination
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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in her own words...

I am an intelligent, artistic and sensual woman with grown children. I would like to find a more masculine mature woman who is family friendly, can understand a busy schedule and would like to share her life. That's it in a nutshell, but I'll elaborate. I've worn many hats in my life, and it's taken a bit to get where I am now, comfortable and happy and my glass is half full, usually more. I am lucky to have strong friendships and a loving family. My home is always open and my cookie tin usually full, unless my kid's friends have been by. I enjoy cooking, baking, knitting & sewing. I like trying to fix things that break, like vacuums, not people.They have to fix themselves. I love to dance, especially couple dancing like country two-step and salsa. People describe me as warm and open. I enjoy a good sense of humor. I like being with people, am happy staying home watching TV, going out for coffee, and traveling. I'm pretty tame now, but I've played hard and had some amazing experiences. I'm still up for more fun and adventure. What I'm looking for is someone to share time and experiences with. I'm a tough fem, and you are butch. You know who you are without a false sense of bravado. You know what you like and what you want in life and you don't try to control anyone else. You know how to share and how to be part of a team. You are satisfied in your work, smart, sophisticated and debonair. You feel as comfortable in jeans as a suit and tie, as comfortable in a bar in the Mission as dinner at The Fairmont. I want a balanced fun, yet mature partnership. If any of this sparks your fancy, send me an email. Then maybe coffee, a movie, and we'll see. I look forward to hearing from you. Melanie

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 62
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any