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38 | San Francisco, California

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He has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

He seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

He likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement his restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I like to figure out how things work
  • I have a wide range of interests

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Performing arts


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in his own words...

I like to tell people that I am a pretty average guy, but my friends would say otherwise, and I am usually humbled by their words. Every morning I wake up with the intent of saving the world, and by the end of the day I have saved a very very small part of it. I am not one of those guys who is into fire dancing or Faberge egg volleyball or whatever obscure hobby the kids have recently labeled awesome. I'm usually cooking with and/or for friends, taking classes, or reading either the Economist or random non-fiction. In more unusual times, I have also been known to demolish bathrooms and kitchens and rewire homes, wander Italy alone, and build startups. What do I want out of a relationship with you? You have interesting things to say. You understand that a little compassion in a challenging world can go a long way. You have the time and energy to be a full-blown partner. You think you would like my food. You want someone to help you take on the world. You realize that we aren't a series of checkboxes and features that our dating profile seems to imply, but human beings with collections of experiences, thoughts, and feelings that have shaped the people we are today, and with some luck, you can find someone that complements you. Oh... I am not ashamed to say that my food is good. I would have to really like you before I made you my cassoulet, though.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 37
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral