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50 | San Francisco, California

A kind heart never loses in the end. Just do the next right thing. Amazing how I always feel better after helping someone else.

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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Watching sports


in his own words...

Writing a description of myself is difficult. It is impossible to get it wrong since I am writing about myself a subject that I know more about now than a few years ago. Yes, I have experienced a few life lessons. Humility and appreciating others are two important lessons. Living in the moment is another. My daughter reminds and teaches this lesson every minute, hour and day. I teach her to focus on what she can control - effort and attitude and not worry about the results. I have a great sense of humor. If I had to do it all over again I would have pursued comedy writing or radio. I can always find the humor in a situation or make someone laugh. After moving to the bay area from NYC, I discovered that not everyone appreciates or gets sarcasm. I also have learned that there is a time and a place for humor. I let certain moments and emotions stand alone appreciating them for their own unique qualities. For example, there is something about waking up early on a Saturday or Sunday morning and moving about the city before it gets stirring. I never get tired of experiencing the stillness and serenity that occurs while walking on a golf course the last hour before the sun sets. It is a great feeling whether by myself or with one of my good friends. Watching one of my soccer players "get it." Great watching them experience that feeling of accomplishment. I now fully appreciate the expression "If I only knew then what I know now." Life has taught me many important lessons including doing the next right thing even when no one else is watching. I have worked very hard and attained society's defintion of material success. Now, I am working just as hard on enjoying the more rewarding part of life including relationships. Love and intimacy are more fulfilling than anything Saks Fifth Avenue has to offer. Although, I do enjoy shopping there. I am looking for someone to enjoy life with. The ups, downs and everything in between.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 34 - 42
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral