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BUILDER

(this is his dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

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Jeff

32 | San Francisco, California

Hello! I'm a shy, masculine white bottom looking for a masculine Asian top.

He tends to be traditional. He feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around him and can be fiercely protective of those he loves.

With his stoical attitude coupled with his dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, he often becomes a central and effective player in his social and business networks.

He is attracted to those who share his values; he admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy his orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I would rather have loyal friends than interesting friends
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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His 17 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Dining out

Gardening

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in his own words...

I am very shy at first, but I open up to people as they get to know me. At heart I'm an open book. I don't keep secrets, and I don't mind discussing anything. I've been told i'm a great listener, and don't mind helping people through their problems. I'm incredibly loyal, and will unquestionably support my partner's decision even if I disagree with it. I'm also drama free, and I tend to get along well with everyone. If I can use one phrase to describe myself, it is that I enjoy the smaller things in life. I've been blessed with the ability to find the smallest pleasures in everything I do. I also tend to never be bored with nothing to do. I can always find myself something to keep me entertained. And it is this trait of mine that probably explains why I am so passive. While I'm able make big decisions for myself, I tend to leave smaller decisions (where to go, what to eat, etc.) to my ideal partner. I want someone who can make small decisions easily, who is a little more active to counteract my passivity. If you are very passive too, this isn't going to work, heh. I'm looking for a masculine asian top (and i do mean top. I've never topped, and don't plan to). I want someone who is active, able to take charge, but also easy going. I want someone who likes going out, but also likes staying in. My friends and family mean the world to me, and I want someone who is willing to get to know my family well (they are really cool, i promise). Most importantly, I want someone who will love me for all I am and who will let me love them equally. If you like what you see, please don't hesitate to say hi! =)

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any