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38 | San Francisco, California

I work hard and have never done any on line dating before. I actually have no idea what to write : ) live and love life! : )

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings

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in his own words...

Wow, so much pressure!! Ok, I am looking for someone cool and open minded that's attracted to me and I'm attracted to. I know it sounds superficial, but it does matter in the begginning. The spiritual connection usually falls after there is some sort of initial physical observation. I feel like I'm in a no win situation with trying to date...I am so bad at trying to initate converstaion while out in the world ( so I don't approach!). And if I stay silent, you guys don't approach so there is zero action taken! Hopefully on line dating will close the gap! I've never done this before so I'm sort of curious about all the human logistics around going from a "wink" to an actual shaking of the hands and a hello in person". How my friends would describe me. . .they would be bias so I wouldn't ask them if that was your deciding factor ( I hope they would co-sign me). What makes me smile . . .happiness I guess!! There are so many things that would make me smile! My social life - non-existent! : ( I just moved to SF from NY a few months ago. I am most proud of my ablility to endure! I'm not bulletproof by any means, but I can shake nonsense off semi sort of easily! LOL! What am I looking for? I have no idea! I just hope I can start off by meeting someone cool and smart! Let's just start from there. I would like to find someone who can make me laugh as well as challenge me! A friend taught me to find someone who makes me better! Being that I'm not that amazing of a catch. . .I guess making me better should not be that much of a stretch for anyone! I know online dating is risky for you guys and there are tons of little idiosyncrasy’s that can make or break a first interaction, but I am super shy out in the world and it unfortunately translates to online dating (even though it shouln't). So if there is a super cool, funny, smart, level headed person out there that hates negative drama, please don't hesistate. I'm not a killer (hahahahha!!!) so it w

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 38
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any