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43 | San Francisco, California

Thinks he's such a big deal...

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I have no trouble making a choice, even when several alternatives seem equally good at first
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly
  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating

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in his own words...

So, this is harder than I thought.... third time around.... About me I'm proud of my past and optimistic about the future. Try to take care of myself, but I'm more intellectual than athletic and more likely to want to spend my vacations exploring a new city, going to museums and trying new experiences instead of lying on the beach. (Although sometimes that’s good.) I love travel, but I’m more of the 5 Star-type than backpacking. I like to sleep in a bed, with sheets and room service after a hike or safari. I have a fairly stable career that allows me a decent amount of flexibility with my schedule, but it's always on and I'm always checking my iPhone. So, what’s actually interesting about me? I appreciate the tragically ironic (or the ironically tragic, I always get the two confused...) I find it amusing when someone (particularly me), acts in a silly, irrational or dumb way. I love to laugh at myself, and this often extends to my friends and family - or clients, or strangers… I have an unlimited tolerance for people losing it. I’m always clear headed when someone else freaks out. (Maybe I should hire some psycho to hang around the office, just to keep me grounded?) I like spirited debates, especially when I lose. Theater, comedy is great, as is live music (in a Vegas sort of way.) Can tolerate opera, etc. I like some indy films, but generally think that every movie would be better with a zombie. (I'm prepared for the zombie apocalypse - maybe looking forward to it.) I'm a conservative who prefers liberals. You… Sarcastic sense of humor required. And then I must tease you about it... endlessly. Confident, stylish, polished; someone who wants to dress up, explore restaurants, galleries, travel abroad. Someone who's comfortable with me holding doors and standing up when they come to the table. Ultimately, I want to be the best man I can be. I’m hope to find a woman who’s wisdom gives me perspective and someone who inspires the best in my character.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Not Religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 22 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • A few times a week
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral