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76 | San Francisco, California

brainy guy looking for younger same

He is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, he can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

He is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in his relationships.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions
  • People should behave according to established standards of proper conduct

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I myself am very "spiritual" and devoted to zen practice. I'm also very intellectual being a phd from Berkeley and a writer and translator (and essaying, poet, blah blah). True I"m an older guy, and there are some health problems but none, so far, lethal or less than needing minor attention. I'm romantically probably more bottom than top though this could change. I could care less if my partner is religious or spiritual. That's for him to decide. I'd love the m-m-m-m factor, an althletic body. But sensitive and able to enjoy the arts, museums, concerts, that kind of thing. I prize intimacy above all--the ability to really connect heart to heart. Love is all. And though I don't demand it I'd LOVE us to be commited and monogamous. Also at my age, things slow down and sex once a week is about all I think I could do. You are able to really LISTEN to me, as I promise to do to you.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Grey
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral