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Steven

57 | San Francisco, California

The secret to looking half your age -- spend half your life sleeping. Just kidding, but it may have worked for me.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me
  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun
  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful

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Fitness

in his own words...

I am a hard working and hard playing individual, always striving to exceed my previous accomplishments and to expand to the next level, whether at work or in play. Work keeps the mind sharp while play helps maintain a healthy level of fitness that rewards one with a youthful feeling and appearance. Being driven sometimes has an adverse effect when there is tension, hence, the need to seek all forms of relaxation. I have discovered that scuba diving, running and sprinting along the beach or on a hilly trail, and of all things, the martial arts of Jeet Kune Do and Kali forces one to relax, especially if one wants to excel in these activities. The friends that I have met in these activities always tell me to relax -- I think I have come a long way towards relaxation. Besides, the lack of tension combined with being physically fit, can allow you to look half your age -- it all depends on how hard and how smart you work at it to stay fit, as you get older. At some point, everyone seems to need a coach to push him or her beyond the pain tolerances aging presents. I am looking for a mate that currently enjoys an active, healthy lifestyle like mines, who enjoys traveling to exotic and not-so-exotic local destinations, who wants to share in all aspects of our lives together, and who does not mind having or being a coach to one another while staying fit. I am also hoping to find a mate that has a positive personality. For example, saying, "Cool, let's do it!" in response to a black water diving excursion on the Big Island of Hawaii is a sign of having a positive personality. There is no hesitation or long debate in her mind before agreeing, or worst of all, deciding to forego the activity, even though it is within her abilities. The easier-to-fill traits of the ideal match are honesty, sincerity, sense of humor that balances my straight-man humor or occasional sense of humor (what can I say; I have a technical I.T. background), good communication without hidden

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 32 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
    • Not Religious
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral