PRIMARY

DIRECTOR

(this is her dominant personality type)

SECONDARY

Negotiator

(she also shows elements of this type)

Iluminada

47 | San Francisco, California

Whether you think you can or not, either way you are right. You must become the change you wish to see in the world.

She is an analytical, focused and independent thinker with a deep interest in how the world works. She quickly grasps patterns and relationships and sees the many sides of any complex issue.

She likes to engage her friends and family with rigorous, theoretical and broad discussions that can be highly entertaining and informative.

She seeks a mind mate. She likes individuals who want to play with abstract ideas and explore the complex ways the world works.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties
  • When making a decision, I like to stick to the facts rather than be swayed by people's feelings
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct

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Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Spirituality

Shopping

Travel

Volunteering

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in her own words...

Wow! Not sure where to begin. After 11 years of being out of the scene I am poking around. I am extremely intelligent, independent and strong yet very compassionate and loving. I am intense in all levels, I am not afraid to show my emotions, however, I am fair and just. No bs and I love to swear in a good way. I love life, I am very passionate and love to enjoy anything and everything I do. It's not what I do but how I do it that matters. I am a spiritual person, my work has been to overcome my egoic mind and to end be a slave to it. I love Quantum Mechanics (I am one of those weirdos that believe the micro affects the macro), I am very interested in Neuroscience and everything that is out of the box. I don't like backwards or conventional. I am not mainstream, I am on the fringe of Complementary and Alternative Medicine. I am very open yet love privacy. I have a great dry sense of humor, and love joking around, it is essential for me to have fun everyday, I love to touch and be touched. I am looking for somebody that can stand next to me, a partner, a lover, a friend. I don't follow anyone and don't want anyone following me. We have equal rights and must have total respect for each other. Conversation is the key, must communicate otherwise there is no way we can get along. Very important!!! I don't like to cook, don't cook for myself but will cook with you, I want an independent person that can pick up after himself, I don't want to raise another man. I want a loving person, funny guy that really gets me. Somebody who is sure of his masculinity and doesn't get his panties all in a bunch. :D A good listener but an excellent communicator. Someone that knows how to do the little things. Who is TOTALLY aware of his surrounding, who is in tune with me. I want a man that can communicate his feelings, knows how to express what he wants and don't want.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral