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61 | San Francisco, California

A bit or irreverence. Behind the moniker? Gourmet = great cook and love to do parties; bytes = tech maven

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I am very empathetic
  • I have a wide range of interests

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in her own words...

OK…let’s be real here. I’ve read all these profiles of fit, soulful folks who want to run up Mount Tam with their soulmate with whom they’ve had instant chemistry. REALLY? If you are over 50, things – skin, pounds, other bodily parts are heading south. This is just a fact of life. 50 crunches a day does not gravity defy! Are you secretly grinning yet? So for all of you folks that talk about how fit you are…is that really your highest level of connection? I can climb a hill for 30 minutes without being winded – I’m pretty fit; but I don’t define myself that way. And we all know you are dressed up for the prom right now, but what will you be like after you “settle in?” My early on dream date was Lawrence Olivier, not Robert Redford. I forget who said the sexiest organ is between the ears, but I truly believe it. Notwithstanding of course Nora Ephron’s quote that she was tired of hearing that which has been revived in spades lately. I hope you have had an interesting life. I would like to spend hours chatting about the whys and hows of where you got to where you are and what you plan to do with it for the rest of your life. I can return the favor with a characterization of Betsy SuperFone! Seriously, it is fun, IMHO, to learn about the influences that got people to where they are today. What I would like is someone to hang out with. Like great restaurants, plays, art, opera, music? And just plain old conversation, after a good movie in a theatre or on pay per view, or a good dinner? I’m your gal. Like to visit France, Italy, Japan, Hong Kong, and places off the beaten path? Even better. And I’m digitally astute – it is my business – so I’m not interested if you are challenged by technology. I have found it fascinating for many, many years – it is the way our country will win or lose in the next generation. I’m also not interested if you aren’t financially self sufficient; I’m not interested in being your sugar Mama. I enjoy my

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 66
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral