(this is her dominant personality type)



(she also shows elements of this type)


49 | San Francisco, California

The Cat's Pajamas

She is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

She is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and she can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others she is just like them.

She is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out her flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating
  • After watching an emotional film, I often still feel moved by it several hours later
  • I like to figure out how things work

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Her 21 interests

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Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports






Watching sports

Wine tasting


in her own words...

Unknown children and unmet dogs unreservedly run up to me. I can watch incessantly both In Bruges and Fargo for the same reason: both are hilarious yet sneakily poignant films, allowing me to laugh and cry in one sitting. I spend my work life solving aesthetic puzzles using an alchemy of art and science (one of my favorite combinations). I can and will happily make you black eyed pea stew but in truth I would rather wash the dishes, sweep, clean, and polish. And eat. You will find me singing and dancing. I also enjoy listening, watching, engaging, observing, and talking a blue streak. You are a buoy and an anchor to yourself and to me. You have standards and boundaries that you communicate directly and are respected by all for your straight shooting. You might run out to get a fabulous lamp because you know it will look great. You value and revel in simultaneity: wisdom and bewilderment, self-awareness and bluster, suppleness and obstinacy, focus and meandering. You recognize that the greatest gift we can give our children is a family life so abundantly loving that they are eternally comfortable in their own skins. A main reason we are together because we just about cannot go any further without each other. We evolve, involve, resolve (where possible) and solve problems. We also crack each other up, which is for me, another hallmark of a great and lasting love.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Auburn / Red
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 37 - 52
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any