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51 | San Francisco, California

Words are powerful and simply words. Love is powerful and sometimes it alone is not enough. Truth is perception and changes.

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to work in a straightforward path toward completing the task
  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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in his own words...

Me-goofy, funny, nerd, geek, serious, committed, passionate, compassionate...happy I am a serious and fun loving person. I like staying at home with a good book, movie and/or man, dancing the night away, going to the theater (traditional and experimental), camping, eating out or just sitting under the stars. I am getting a Master's in Counseling Psychology so much of my time is focused on school. I am also a singer, songwriter and performance artist. I would like to meet a man who embodies qualities I believe I have such as being respectful, honest, caring, having clear boundaries, vulnerability, inner strength, willingness to try something new or different and speaks up for self and others. I love dancing and appreciate a man who does as well. Music has been the one constant positive in my life and has ushered me through many moods, modes, causeways, valleys, waterways and solar systems. I like a man who is intelligent and who will also play doorbell ditch. My friends and family are an important part of my life and I enjoy spending time with them and I want a man who feels the same. I'm looking for a guy who is comfortable with being together and apart or sitting in silence just doing our thing. I really appreciate language, words and respectful communication. A man who speaks another language is great, especially if he can teach me this language or would like to take a class together so we can learn a language and travel. I have worked in education (teaching mainly in Elementary schools), HIV Research, as an HIV Test Counselor and patient care in various forms. Community-Produced The Soul of Pride African American Stage and Village for SF Pride/3 yrs, Human Rights Commission LGBT Advisory Committee/2 yrs, Co-Produced Radical Performance Festival, Speaker's Bureau-Community United Against Violence (CUAV), Committee and Board Member-The Community Initiative and Facilitator-STOP AIDS/BLACK PLUS Seminars. Love Is Powerful Perception

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Less than $25,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Black or African American

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any