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50 | San Francisco, California

Cautiously Optimistic

She tends to be traditional. She feels deeply responsible for just about everyone around her and can be fiercely protective of those she loves.

With her stoical attitude coupled with her dependable, cooperative and “can-do” spirit, she often becomes a central and effective player in her social and business networks.

She is attracted to those who share her values; she admires those who are direct, analytical, authentic and assertive and can enjoy her orderly and compassionate nature.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct
  • I am more optimistic than most people

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in her own words...

I try my best everyday to be a good person, to be kind to others, and hopefully to contribute in my own small way to make this world a better place (or at least not to make it a worse place!). I give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong, but I don't ever tolerate bad behavior. I'm an attorney by trade, but please don't hold that against me - I really do have a heart! (despite what my opponents might claim...) I'm looking for someone who has a strong moral compass; shares my belief that integrity is the most important trait a person can have; is outgoing and sociable like I am; and will appreciate my efforts to be nice and not mistake my kindness for weakness. Most importantly, I need someone who has a sense of humor, because I laugh at myself all the time. On a serious note, I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone who does not have children (yes, I know that greatly limits my pool of potentially wonderful partners, but it's a personal preference that I can't change). I also approach every new relationship with a clean slate, so if you're in a relationship with me, you will always be secure in knowing that you're the only one I want to be with, and there are no ex's, or anyone else, lurking in the background. I expect the same level of respect from anyone I date. So if you're the type of person who feels a need to stay in touch with ex's, or if you're just looking for a casual hook-up, then we are definitely not compatible.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 38 - 47
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral