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Matt

48 | San Francisco, California

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He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I understand complex machines easily
  • I am always doing new things
  • I enjoy competitive conversations

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His 19 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Cooking

Dining out

Gardening

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Performing arts

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Politics

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

Fitness

Photography

in his own words...

On-line profile? Check. Interest in meeting someone special? Check. Any idea if I'm going about it right? Nope. Basics: I am a great guy who looking to meet someone who is fun, smart and interesting. A friend who can become more and with whom I can relax and laugh. In my view, friendships, like relationships take effort but the returns are more than worth it. I'm looking to enjoy life with someone while building a stimulating, consistent, warm and fun relationship. Laughing, especially at the absurdities of life, is such is such a good thing. I value honesty and empathy and don't care much for immature drama. I know drama happens and can make things interesting, but I'm not interested in constantly reliving the drama of our teenage years. Lying is a bad thing for me and my radar is good. I think it is attractive to have one's things/house/mind in order - not seeking ordered perfection (God knows that is not me!) in any way but I don't need or want unnecessary chaos injected into my life. Too much chaos gets in the way and next thing you know you can't relax and you stop laughing/sharing. I don't need anyone to save me and I don't want to save any one - but I do want empathy and mixed in with real friendship. I am looking for a friend who wants me to be with her but also is comfortable being alone and expects the same. After time apart I want there to be desire to be together. Desire is a great thing. Life should be fun - it sure helps to have fun memories when you hit life's speed bumps. Hopefully, this blurb gives you some idea about me. See you soon.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 33 - 44
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral