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John

48 | San Francisco, California

Quiet, longing, disbelieving in conventions around us, wanting friendshsip - wanting to grow and learn

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day

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in his own words...

I consider myself a kind and caring person, very interested in Buddhism and interpsonal communication. I feel totally disillusioned with the culture in which I live, and yet I can not see any alternative. I want to share the lonliness I feel, I want to discuss it and explore it, understand what part of my lonliness reflects personal weaknesses, and what part reflects an acurate perception of a truly disfunctional and even meaningless world. I would like to say that the body and appearances of a girlfriend are irrelevant, but I dont think I could say that honestly. But I can say that if I found a woman who passionately loved virtue, somewhat intellectual, longed not for "romance" as it appears on the movie screen, but simple companionship to explore what it means to care, to laugh, to joke - but also to apprehend the profound meaninglessness of our world, and to understand that romantic love can not address that meaninglessness; if i found such a woman who sees the tragedy of life but can hold it lightly and proceed with a sense of respect for the suffering yet still know how to play and to laugh and the absurdity of our lives - then i could say her friendship would overshadow any physical quality, body type, age etc.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Buddhist / Taoist
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • Less than $25,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Not Religious
  • education:
    • Any