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58 | San Francisco, California

"... we were never meant to survive." (Audre Lorde) that means living life w verve & intention--seeking same for hot, focused partnershi

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in his own words...

In 2002 I had a Marriage-to-Self ceremony, surrounded by close friends, to ritualize my commitment to myself and the quality of Life that I choose to live. I've been involved with many wonderful men through my adult years and continue to seek a partner to build a life together with. If you're looking for conventional, you'll be happier clicking on to the next profile. If you appreciate hot, authentic, gentle, rare beauty and spirit-based originality, you might be interested in me. Look.... I've been around. I've tried a lot of things, I have paid close attention, I am a consummate learner from my own and others' mistakes. I make my effort to live "the examined life". I am a great partner, a great person, a great community member, a great friend, a great lover, a great thinker teacher and learner, and a great spirit.... and I am drawn to those identities in others, too. I have a big capacity to both give and also to receive. I love to take a deep breath, a measured and considered risk, to live life. That doesn't always mean a lot of stimulation. Sometimes it means slowing down, going inside, completing things, taking the road less travelled. I have two gardens. I play three musical instruments competently, I speak several languages, I do spiritual work and volunteer, I travel and explore and adventure, I create, I love. I have a potent inner life and am well-educated and -travelled. I actively cultivate myself physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and intentionally, i.e. I touch all of my dreams and manifest some of them. I'm not a glutton for quantity, but possibly something of a slut for quality!!! One of those dreams is to share life day to day over the long term with a special man who not only wants, but chooses to meet me in that. I want holistic connection, I want loyalty and mutuality, I want kindness and generosity of spirit, I want collaboration to co-create something fun, sustainable, joyous, sexy, smart, and special. My

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Not Answered
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 44 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree