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53 | San Francisco, California

The pursuit of happiness is just the pursuit of a peaceful world, which is just the world viewed through peaceful eyes.

He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I am always looking for new experiences
  • I am more analytical and logical than most people
  • I am intrigued by rules and patterns that govern systems

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in his own words...

I have a full life - a busy job, volunteer work that is important to me, and two young sons. I find myself drawn to nature and art for regeneration. I would love to meet a mature woman who enjoys the life of the mind, a sharer and thinker. I once heard an extrovert defined as someone who, when tired, gets energized by people. A introvert gets energized by some solitude. By this standard, I'm a bit introverted, though my work days are full of interactions, and I like that. It would be fun for both of us if we're different to a degree, and stretch each other a little. I hope your view of the world is a little complex, that you don't really feel comfortable with conventional beliefs, that you're not much of a joiner. Maybe you work too much sometimes, but you can pull yourself back and regain your balance. If you see work as a place to learn about people, we'll probably understand each other. You've chosen something and applied yourself with some constancy, and you're good at what you do. You see some genuine value in your work - it doesn't define you, but it's a big part of your contribution to the world. If you're reflective, I would enjoy hearing your thoughtful observations about the world. What have your years taught you?

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $200,001 to $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 43 - 49
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral