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55 | San Francisco, California

50 year old gay engineer in SF

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy planning way ahead
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I pursue intellectual topics thoroughly and regularly

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in his own words...

I have a preference for older men, in their 60's and 70's. I'm open to dating men closer to my own age but not sure how that will play out. I don't like overly fat men, though, or men with beards or long hair. A spare tire around your middle can be sexy, though. With the right man I can be very sexual and intense; but I'm not promiscuous and I tend to be a little paranoid about STD's. I am disease free and HIV negative. My biggest problem in the dating scene is I'm busy and work long hours and commute to Silicon Valley. I expect to retire by 55, however. Also, I love the outdoors, camping, hiking, etc.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 48 - 82
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any