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56 | San Francisco, California

Newly singled seeks strong and generous partner who will turn the page with me to write the best chapters possible about us.

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean
  • I am always doing new things
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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Playing cards

Playing Sports


Wine tasting


in his own words...

I am active, fit, curious, and have plenty of common sense. I become enthusiastic with my undertakings. I am goal oriented, but not to an obsession. I am an outdoors person who is as comfortable skiing Squaw as diving the Blue Hole of Belize, and as apprehensive. I run and workout several days a week. I have little time for network television's disappointing attempts to produce entertainment, and am grateful for surprising gems like Mad Men and Boardwalk Empire. The shouting heads merely thunder partisan opinions daily, but I record Rachel Maddow for politics delivered with style and humor. My news sources of choice are The WSJ and The New York Times, and Morning Edition wakes me each day. ESPN is not a part of my routine, but football in January with close friends and the fun members of the family are stoked social gatherings, even if you have no interest in the teams or the contests. I picked up golf about five years ago. I can't break 100, and neither am l consumed by this game nor does it claim a disproportionate share of my time. My enthusiasm for chasing that little ball around a pretty pasture has its limits. You are secure and at ease in your own skin, and a loyal friend to those you fully embrace. They are warmed when you arrive. You are seeking a genuine, outgoing, intelligent partner, but have not observed an abundance of stable candidates. This one recently emerged from a long term marriage that reached its end when the nest emptied. I am beginning anew, and intend to enjoy the next phase of my life with as much fulfillment as the last, this time centered on the two of us and the happiness we bring to each other. I am seeking a meaningful partnership of equals with someone strong and generous. I have two children who recently completed college. My match enjoys similar independence and desires the journey that awaits in the post heavy-lifting stage of life.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 46 - 51
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral