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56 | San Francisco, California

Curious, hesitant, active

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I enjoy competitive conversations
  • I frequently catch myself daydreaming
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs

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in his own words...

Curious - about what's possible, who's out there, where all the vibrant men over 40 are hiding, Hesitant - to participate in online dating, to meet someone live from a virtual connection, to share my name and photo with strangers. Active - I'm very engaged in my work and in the world and with friends. I travel a lot, work in multiple contexts, and tend to stay busy. I've had long term boyfriends and lived with one partner for over 5 years. Along the way I've taken a few hits and would like to meet someone who has loved and lost and is struggling to figure out how to open again. Also my libido and lust are much more active than my ability to meet men.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Atheist
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 56
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any