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52 | San Francisco, California

A non-conformist in a Fortune 100 company. Contradictions, always.

He is a highly spontaneous, inquisitive and energetic person who always likes to try new things and has a genuine desire to be helpful to others and to the world at large.

He is charismatic, agreeable and adaptable and he can adapt to just about any social situation, convincing others he is just like them.

He is drawn to people who are direct, decisive and tough minded to balance out his flexible, spontaneous, intuitive style.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved
  • I often find myself getting lost in my thoughts during the day
  • I like to avoid the nuances and say exactly what I mean

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in his own words...

I'm a smart, well-put-together guy who likes and looks for balanced, mature, confident, masculine men who know how to be firm and kind at the same time. I've lived in SF since 1997 (with a brief 2 year stint in NY) and love it here. I keep my self well grounded - which takes work in the face of life's stress - and I believe in giving wholly of myself to the things I choose. Most times I am confident and know what I want, but life is also confusing at times and I am learning not to try so hard to control the world around me, but to flow with it and influence it in the best ways I can. Ultimately, I'd like to find a man who can stand on his own two feet but who likes to get and give of himself. Finding someone with a capacity for giving of themselves - not their money - is highly important. I am the kind of guy who can open his heart and soul to the right person, without reservations and with passion. Ultimately I am a romantic, and I feel love deeply when it does come. I like men who are demonstrative, who are ok with showing who they really are. These are men who know who they are at the core, and stand strong while showing compassion and empathy. Men who know how to love without finding that a weakness.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Separated
  • Income:
    • $150,001 to $200,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 30 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • High school
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral