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59 | San Francisco, California

What a friend I want...

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • My family and friends would say I have traditional values
  • I am very empathetic
  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships

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Watching sports

Wine tasting


in his own words...

Friendship and trust are the most important elements in any relationship. I can't learn to trust you if I don't know who you really are. The best way to learn that is spending time and really talking with each other. I think if you give honestly of yourself that a relationship will take on a life of it's own. Honesty and trust require taking some risks and revealing vulnerabilities so you can see who each other really are. It can be difficult, especially after being hurt by people, but it is sooo important! Kind of like getting back on the horse after falling..... I am young at heart, and love to have fun. I can have fun anywhere, by meeting new people, having a deep conversation over a great cup of coffee, or being at an event or party. The company you keep is what makes the time spent worthwhile. Sometimes it is just sharing about your day with the person you care about. I am a one woman man. I like to give and share with someone special in my life. I like a knowing look across a crowded room. I like bringing flowers for no reason. I like sending a message that says"Hi, I was thinking about you." I like sharing what is important to me, and learning what is important to you. To me, a relationship is caring about and doing for someone who is special in your life. Imagining the look on her face when she finds the small gift you left in her purse or under her pillow when you are on a business trip! It means wanting to look and smell good for someone special. It means sticking up for someone, or just listening when they need to vent. It means rolling over and holding someone in the middle of the night. It means bringing her coffee in bed, running to the bagel store, sharing chores. Thoughtfulness is NOT overrated!

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with kids
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 50 - 70
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any