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53 | San Francisco, California

Lost at the Man Mall

She sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And she also has an adventurous side.

She enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which she wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

She particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am very sensitive to people's feelings and needs
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do

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in her own words...

All but two pics taken July 2010 Made in Italy and exported to America, I have been straddling two identities all my life. In spite of my efforts to escape the 9-5 and the pointless wrestling with workplace authority and office politics, I find myself once again in a cube, trapped between man-made panels and fluorescent lights like a rat in a maze. I can hear the clacking of keyboards and the ringing of phones, people breathing and coughing and farting behind the partition, but I hardly see anyone, and sometimes I get the feeling that if I died tomorrow on the job no one would notice --- the janitor would find me years from now, a pile of ash and bones under the desk, and quietly sweep me up in her dustpan. In the feng-shui hell of the cube I write daily for the monthly bacon, and occasionally I freelance for the paper, singing the praises of ceramic induction kitchen ranges, Tahoe retreats, and espresso machines – the important things in life. On my own time I channel the voices that have been clamoring for my attention for so long, showing up to do the work even when inspiration stands me up. Not a fan of uniforms, whether pierced or rolexed on the body, and while I may still pound my fist on the table in defense of my convictions, I appreciate the value of compromise in achieving some modicum of peace, love, and understanding. Status symbols don't impress me as a measure of success, which to me is predicated on the way we are remembered. As privileged as I am to enjoy the elective bohemie of this ZIP code, I am proud of my working class roots. The bookshelf is my totem. Give me the drunks, the epileptics, the suicides – always good company. Printed paper provides a sense of safety and comfort unlike anything else, except perhaps reading in bed, and not reading alone. I still listen to Nirvana. Occasionally get the itch for the mosh pit. Not polyamorous or poly-interested. I am obsessed with Edward Burtynsky's Shipbreaking photographs. I would like

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 41 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Divorced
    • Widowed
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral