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41 | San Francisco, California

Fine lady seeks decent gent who's smart, has a sense of humor, and knows what he wants.

She is interested in the big picture and likes to examine large, ambiguous issues and ideas.

In relating to others, she can be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people.

She is a die-hard romantic, and must have depth and meaning in her relationships.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I tend to be cautious, but not fearful
  • I am more creative than most people
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions

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in her own words...

I am an optimistic, easy-going woman with a good career, seeking a great balance of life, work, and love. I value family and friends; health and happiness. In others, I appreciate open-mindedness, intellectual curiosity, and good humor. I can be on the quiet side, because I like to listen and process; my true colors show themselves over time. If you're looking for a bubbly girl, that's not me; I am a calm force though not at all reserved when you get to know me. To me, important issues/causes in our world include community, environment, animal welfare, and open knowledge. Oh, and I think mean people suck! For kicks, I'm into hiking, photography, reading, cooking, drinking wine, Wes Anderson movies, and a dose of good culture now and then - especially modern art. Also - very important - I have two small dogs (even though I'm not a "small dog person") and as cliche as it sounds, my ideal partner "must love dogs" too. I'm an east coaster by birth, a New Yorker for many years, but a west coaster at heart. I'm well travelled around he world, and I like to explore new places, but I'm hooked on San Fran and am playing the Bay area for keeps, since it can't be beat for all it has to offer. I'm looking for an intelligent, humorous, confident, caring, and attractive man. Geeky's good too, but only if you're passionate about what you geek out on. In a relationship, I am seeking fun, mutual respect and shared core values. It's important that a man's traits and interests are complementary to mine, which means a healthy mix of same and different. Most of all, I am looking for someone with strength of character and self-knowledge, who is communicative, and truthful with themselves and with me about what they want out of life. It's a tall order, but it will be reciprocated.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 35 - 43
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral