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J. Antonio

49 | San Francisco, California

Sharing the good stuff in life...

He sees the big picture and can easily take the broad, long view of almost any topic. And he also has an adventurous side.

He enjoys new ideas and novel experiences which he wants to share with an enthusiastic partner.

He particularly enjoys people who like to play with abstract theories and ideas, provide insights, search for symbolic meanings in life and relationships and have a broad interest in the world.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I tend to be meticulous in my duties

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in his own words...

I'm an immigrant mafrom Guatemala, 42 y/o, HIV-, openly gay. I love traveling (usually alone), nurturing plants, good books, vampire and sci-fi movies, walking, playing tourist in my own city, doing creative projects, collecting masks and candle holders, taking pictures in nature, mentoring, dancing fast (salsa & swing), Sarah Vaughan, KD Lang, Mozart, and Jean Michel Jarre. I love theater, musicals, and music of the 80's. I often look for new challenges and ways to grow internally, to have new experiences and gain insight into who I am beyond what I already know. The integrity of my word is my most precious possession. I am loyal, direct, intuitive, generous, idealistic, romantic, non-materialistic, passionate, playful, strong, decisive, sensual, caring, and detailed-oriented. I would love to meet another man who is complete on his own, who does not need me, but can grow to value my company in his life, and recognize the intrinsic value of having me as his partner, friend, lover, and life-witness. I would love to meet a man who says what he means, but is compassionate, wise, and mindful with the power of his word. A man who enjoys his body fully, who cares for his mind in all its expressions, for his heart not out of fear, and for his spirit as the only true link to everything else that is. A man who extends his hand out to me honestly, who looks me straight in the eye, who allows words of love for me to pour out of his mouth in front of others. A man who invites me to work side-by-side him, who laughs and plays with all his heart, and surprises me with details from mundane to grandiose. A man who knows he wants me, by name, and is not afraid to show me his vulnerable side. A man who makes me want to tear my clothes off at the mere sight of him and is not afraid to show me how to give him all the pleasure he wants from me. I would love to meet a man who promises nothing, speaks his mind, listens deeply, and every day invites me to learn from our life together.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Black
  • Ethnic background:
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 45
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Jewish
    • Not Religious
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college
    • Associates / Technical degree
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral