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45 | San Francisco, California

Being SINGLE for past 3 years(YIKEs!), I've learned to Love this Life! My Maturity, Independence & Self Respect may help me

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I get bored when I have to do the same familiar things
  • Long established customs need to be respected and preserved
  • Regardless of what is logical, I generally listen to my heart when making important decisions

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in his own words...

I'm looking for a mature woman who understands the value of independance. I love spending ample time w/partner, but do realize that being present w/another 100% of the time can stifle personal &/or relationship growth. Two people can ultimately gain more perspective if they recognize that some time apart is vital. I don't mean weeks or months, merely a few hours here & there, or a day or night now & again. Time away from loved ones can help stimulate emotions & strengthen compassion. I believe this occurs because there is time to reflect & ponder what is missing when couples are not constantly together. A woman w/longterm goals turns me on! Not just a dreamer or talker, but actually putting life into motion. Aspirations become tangeable action when two people push eachother. Supporting & motivating w/positive & uplifting words are wonderful components of a relationship. Destinations can't merely be celebrated when reached, but together, enjoying the journey while it occurs. Sharing the roads of life thru experiences intertwined w/a significant other is appealing to me. Much excitement can be had between two people that differ in viewpoints or hobbies or experiences. Opening the eyes & mind of your lover to new parts of life w/in unchartered territory can be so invigorating, ultimately enhancing the growth proccess individually and as a couple. Values and ideologies should have common ground, to find balance and create symmetry, as arguing endlessly is never fun...although, some debate is natural & can be healthy in a strong relationship. There must be powerful chemestry between two people from the very start, I feel. Energy is either there or isn't. I don't think manufacturing feelings is a solid or wise foundation for love. Relationships should occur naturally, never feeling contrived. Passion, trust and communication are perhaps the most vital foundations of a couple, in my opinion.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live with pets
    • Live with roommate(s)
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian
    • Other

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 18 - 40
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Any