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Sammy

45 | San Francisco, California

YouCouldDoWorse

He is very curious and loves adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. When he gets interested in something, he can become extremely focused on it.

People tend to admire him for his knowledge and innovativeness. He derives intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner.

He is drawn to those who can balance his highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • I am more enthusiastic than most people
  • I am very empathetic

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His 14 interests

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Books/reading

Camping

Dining out

Hobbies

Movies/Videos

Museums

Music

Dancing

Playing cards

Playing Sports

Travel

Volunteering

Watching sports

Wine tasting

in his own words...

I'm 40 but can easily pass for 39. I've had a few long term relationships, a few medium, a few short, a few strange ones, a few mistakes, a few near-misses, etc., and have learned that you can't force intimacy or compatibility--after a few weeks or even sooner you feel it or you don't and it's important to be honest with the other person and yourself. It's great to have a few interests in common (mine include playing/watching sports, reading, playing nerdy board games, going out dancing, listening to live music, going to the beach, watching movies) but what makes me want to spend time with someone is more about attraction and humor. I gravitate towards women who are independent, strong willed, intellectual, good looking, and, for whatever reason, think I'm funny. Turnoffs include heavy smokers, selfishness, materialism, and people who take themselves too seriously.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $50,001 to $100,000
  • Eye color:
    • Hazel
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 26 - 44
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any