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58 | San Francisco, California

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He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • I highly value deep emotional intimacy in my relationships
  • In general, I think it is important to follow the rules
  • I am very empathetic

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in his own words...

I'm a single professiona. I'm considerate, honest and fiercely loyal; confident and strong-willed but also open-minded and willing to compromise. I'm happy and tend to be optimistic. People who know me best would describe me as a decent man with a big heart. ... I bribed them. Chemistry and passion are important, but so is friendship. I won't jump into a relationship based upon hormones alone - those never last. This may sound like a sappy cliche, but I want my wife and I to be best friends and I want us to grow old together. I'm very affectionate with the right woman. I enjoy holding hands, reaching out and touching her neck or shoulder as I walk up behind her, and my favorite - having her fall asleep with her head on my chest. I suppose I could be embarrassed to mention all this in my profile, but I really don't embarrass easily. Moreover, I absolutely don't want to waste my time on cold, shallow, unhappy, or otherwise emotionally stunted women. Emotionally stunted is bad - very, very bad.I’m passionate about life and love to stay active. I don't cheat in relationships - with the exception of one very stupid kiss when I was 24. It was enough to teach me how crappy cheating makes you feel and how poisonous it is to a relationship. If you cheat in relationships, please stay away. HER: Honesty is extremely important to me. Dishonesty within a relationship completely negates emotional intimacy. Warmth, kindness, intelligence, loyalty and emotional stability are traits I value, as is a sense of humor. Please no narcissists, histrionics, drug/alcohol abusers, or violent tempers.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Christian / Catholic
  • Relationship history:
    • Divorced
  • Income:
    • $100,001 to $150,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Light brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 38 - 60
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Any
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any