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32 | San Francisco, California

Neurotic writer seeks out-of-touch substance abuser.

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am tough-minded
  • Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me
  • When reading, I enjoy it when the writer takes a sidetrack to say something beautiful or meaningful

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in her own words...

I AM a codependent mess who enjoys midnight walks through Chinatown, talking about writing more than actually writing, and hopping indiscriminately from boyfriend to boyfriend. I love to make frequent references to therapy sessions, avoid confrontation, and dredge up old grievances after a few glasses of wine. Nothing you do will ever be good enough for me. YOU ARE an emotionally-manipulative alcoholic, drug abuser, or high school dropout with unrealistic dreams for the future. You compensate for a crippling fear of abandonment by making grand romantic gestures and sweeping generalizations about "how couples act." When I try to break up with you, you'll write it off as the result of stress, PMS, or mental illness. You always know what's best for me.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • $25,001 to $50,000
  • Eye color:
    • Blue
  • Hair color:
    • Auburn / Red
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 25 - 35
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
    • Every once in a while
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Any