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46 | San Francisco, California


He is an independent thinker who approaches problems with an analytical, exacting, systematic and resourceful mind. Yet he also has a traditional, even sentimental streak and can be very protective of those he loves.

Because he is ambitious, tough-minded and hardworking, his close friends admire him. Yet his complex personality is often hidden behind a wall of composure and logic.

He is attracted to someone who can complement him-someone who is verbally graceful, who weighs alternatives carefully and listens actively, and has well-honed social skills.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • When making a decision, I like to stick to the facts rather than be swayed by people's feelings
  • I like to get to know my friends' deepest needs and feelings
  • I find unpredictable situations exhilarating

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in his own words...

My grandmother always used to ask me, "are you having fun?"...and thus she indirectly is the reason I moved to San Francisco from NYC in August last year! And now that I'm here, I've don't like it...I LOVE IT! I have found San Fran to be so welcoming! I've gotten involved in multiple groups (even did a take on Stephen Colbert for a Temple's Purim Follies...see my pix.) In my spare time I look to play as much tennis as I can - for such a nice guy I can be super-competitive on court : ) I also look to go cycling and hiking, so if you do either of the latter two, that's a bonus. I'm not a workaholic, but my career is still pretty serious. My first was in mechanical engineering, and now I work in software marketing. School-wise, I went to Northwestern for both undergrad and grad. You should get to know me, even meeting me is better ; ) Personality-wise, I've been told I'm an INTJ, which means I'm pretty middle-middle on things, and otherwise get along well with MANY types of people (I have to and do so for my work.) Maybe I should be a negotiator?? I love company, and have a great apartment to do so in....I invited 65 people to my housewarming at the end of January of which I knew maybe 5 before I moved here! I try to volunteer with kids when I the fall I mentored an 8th grader and in mid-March I went to a local school to show K-5 kids the inside of a laptop as part of a science fair (it was a lotta fun!) As my moniker suggests, I like to try the different (love Goldstar): low-key places, informal settings...dining at the bar, off-beat comedy, trying a to explore the Mission? To complete my "online resume", I've volunteered in Nepal, rapelled down waterfalls in Chile, and booked a trip to the Galapagos on five days notice....I don't overplan - I could use a little help in that department ; ) So, enough about me.... About you: you're pretty intelligent (maybe even a brainiac), cute, self-aware, open-up easily

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Jewish
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 31 - 38
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral