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57 | San Francisco, California

Wicked, witty, warm, intuitive and playful. Seeking significance without silly labels. Agenda-free, drama-free, already happy. And you?

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I am very empathetic
  • I have a wide range of interests
  • I like to figure out how things work

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in her own words...

I love to laugh. Both because the world is enormously amusing, and because I am surrounded by delightful people. My life is full of activity and event, and learning; the exchange of skills and ideas, is essential to my happiness. I am profoundly un-conventional. Ideosyncratic, even. Consider myself an 'obstrepore'. I have a rewarding career and a cozy nest. My emotional rheostat is set to 'happy', though I can be as changeable as weather. It is evident to me that among women in the history of the world, I am blessed. Although I am surrounded by a true wealth of wonderful friends, many of whom have been in my life since well into the past century, I don't have a 'significant other', which generally, given the contentiousness of so many relationships, doesn't seem like much of a deficit. Perhaps I'm wrong? I seek a quirky, self-aware, tolerant man with a vast sense of humor. Someone who is, in his own way, extraordinary. It would be lovely if he were a creative spirit, a person with depth and passionate interests beyond organized sports. Complexity is welcomed. Mild neurosis, if taken with humor, is palatable. Rigidity of thought, not so much. The willingness to dance is a plus. My quest is for a person who can bring a new layer of delight and understanding to my life.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Family and friends visit often
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Other
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Green
  • Hair color:
    • Blonde
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 40 - 65
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • American Indian or Alaska Native
    • Asian
    • Black or African American
    • Hispanic/Latino or Spanish origin
    • Middle Eastern
    • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
    • White/Caucasian
    • Other
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / LDS
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Muslim / Islam
    • Spiritual but not religious
    • Other
  • education:
    • Some college