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62 | San Francisco, California

Looking for that one special - Smart, Talented, Assertive, Woman

He is a tough-minded, independent thinker who likes to explore ideas or problems thoroughly. Yet he has a wild side and is not interested in maintaining routine social engagements either.

He gravitates to men and women who are intellectually exciting and like to discuss topics broadly and thoroughly.

He tends to like someone who is spontaneous, even mischievous, as well as a mate who can appreciate his rugged individualism and support of his drive to succeed.

A few excerpts from his personality test:

  • On my time off, I like to be free to do whatever looks fun
  • Taking care of my possessions is a high priority for me
  • It is important to respect authority

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in his own words...

My name is Gary. My friends and family have said that I'm a study in balanced contrasts! I'm high energy but know how to relax; independent but not afraid to ask for help. I'm sharing, spiritual, open, and communicative of both thoughts and feelings. I enjoy things athletic - cycling, skiing, golf, baseball, jacks, marbles, pickup-sticks, hop-scotch (bring out the chalk). I also enjoy photography (freelanced during college) and flying. I love good food (French, Italian and Japanese), and fine wine (should be made the 5th food group... with chocolate the 1st)!! I love to cook - prefer that to being waited upon, although I don't hog the kitchen. Friends tell me that I'm smart, funny, a tiny bit sarcastic but witty, loving, kind, unaffected by career success, confident, opinionated -love to debate but know when to stop and also know when I'm wrong and able to admit it. I'm very tenacious, passionate about living, enjoy - bright, talented, assertive, women. I'm as down to earth as jeans and t-shirt and as formal as black-tie functions, can be silly and wacky but also serious and thoughtful, leader, philosophical, supportive, nurturing, well traveled - U.S., Asia and Europe -Pick a place; let's go! On any given day you may find me in or at art galleries, theatre, opera, movies, ballet, music of all types, classical, rock bands, r&b (where's the next Bonnie Raitt concert? Let's go!), Salzburg music festival, Jazz (Coltrane and Brubeck), Getz, Gilberto and Jobim or take a different turn to listen to Lyle Lovett. I'm a very loyal friend, sometimes shy - until I know that I can trust you, introspective, affectionate, attentive, good listener. I was going to say modest too, but this profile got too long and I thought you might not believe it. :-) Looking for a woman who is curious about all she encounters. High integrity and ethics. Someone who wants a man with whom she will never be bored because his curiosity about the world is never ending. Hope to hear from you.

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About him:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
  • Relationship history:
    • Widowed
  • Income:
    • More than $250,000
  • Eye color:
    • Brown
  • Hair color:
    • Salt and pepper
  • Ethnic background:
    • White/Caucasian

What he's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 39 - 50
  • relationship history:
    • Any
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Agnostic
    • Atheist
    • Buddhist / Taoist
    • Christian / Catholic
    • Christian / Protestant
    • Christian / Other
    • Hindu
    • Jewish
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • education:
    • Any