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53 | San Francisco, California

Message in a bottle

She has a broad overview of reality and likes to tackle large, complex issues and weigh all the variables involved.

She seeks an authentic connection with just about everyone you meet, and you want to have in-depth discussions with friends and colleagues about ideas and feelings.

She likes those who can focus on their goals – individuals who complement her restless soul-searching.

A few excerpts from her personality test:

  • I feel emotions more deeply than most people
  • I am willing to take risks to do what I want to do
  • People should behave in ways that are morally correct

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in her own words...

Sometimes this just feels as if I am sending out smoke signals across the vast expanse of the Grand Canyon to a perfect stranger on the other side. "Hello, hello? Is anyone there?" I realize that the odds of meeting someone this way are incredible, but here's to betting on the long shot. In case you're curious, here are some details about me: I have an inquisitive nature that craves intellectual stimulation and inspiration. I value my independence, wry outlook on life, and ability to strike up conversations with perfect strangers. I have a collection of friends from all walks of life, who are a jumble of sizes, shapes, and colors, but generally tend toward the political left. I like conversations filled with free associations, whimsical digressions and word plays. I read books about how ordinary people overcame extraordinary obstacles, and then wonder whether I will ever write my own story and if anyone will read it. I wish I could play the piano and learn how to paint the clouds, but think I'd better keep my day job and stick with words. I should really put my crayons and passport to more use. I look in the mirror and see a youthful Asian American woman staring back, who thinks that the best is yet to come and would like to meet the right person to share what adventures lie ahead. What I am looking for: I am looking for someone who has made the most of whatever came in the box. My list includes a man with brains, integrity, conviction, ambition, a sense of humor and adventure, an open mind and compassionate soul, who is still youthful in appearance and graceful in motion. I'm attracted to a complex cranium that contains the wisdom that comes with having been around the block and the experience of having triumphed over adversity. I like spending time with a man who has varied interests, likes the outdoors, and yet appreciates the rich cultural aspects of big city life.

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About her:

  • Living situation:
    • Live alone
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Spiritual but not religious
  • Relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
  • Income:
    • I'd prefer to share this information with my matches later.
  • Eye color:
    • Black
  • Hair color:
    • Dark brown
  • Ethnic background:
    • Asian

What she's looking for:

  • Age Range:
    • 45 - 55
  • relationship history:
    • Single (never been married)
    • Divorced
  • smokes:
    • Not at all
  • Ethnic background:
    • Any
  • Religious affiliation:
    • Any
  • education:
    • Bachelors degree
    • Graduate or professional degree
    • PhD / Post Doctoral